Mother’s Day Tips for Newly Divorced Moms

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   May 10th, 2025
Mother’s Day Tips for Newly Divorced Moms

Embracing Change on Mother’s Day After Divorce

Mother’s Day is a day for moms and their children to celebrate the special bond that they share. However, if you are a mom who is recently separated or divorced, Mother’s Day after divorce may feel different from past celebrations. Even if you know terminating the marriage was the best for all, you may still feel emotions of sadness, guilt or loneliness.

If you are experiencing any of these negative emotions, it is beneficial to acknowledge these feelings rather than ignore them or try to sweep them under the rug. Give yourself permission to feel whatever you feel and allow yourself to recognize these emotions to start the process of moving on.

Think of it as an opportunity to establish new traditions that will make Mother’s Day after divorce a meaningful celebration for both you and your children. Unless your children are old enough to plan things for you, you are probably alone in making it a special day for you all.… View Full Article → “Mother’s Day Tips for Newly Divorced Moms”

Maintaining Good Communications with Your Spouse During a Divorce is Important

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   May 3rd, 2025
Maintaining Good Communications with Your Spouse During a Divorce is Important

Is your divorce not going well? Communication during divorce plays an important role in achieving a better outcome

It would seem to go without saying that good communication between a couple is an essential part of a good marriage. However, did you know that establishing communication during divorce between the two spouses, is just as important when navigating the often-turbulent waters during a divorce? As a married couple you may have had good communication, or perhaps your lack of communication was one of the reasons for the divorce.

No matter what has happened in the past it is important to be able to communicate with your soon to be ex. You may be experiencing sadness, anger, stress, frustration, among other emotions, but by establishing an effective means of communication is an important part to help the process move on more smoothly.

You might be tempted to minimize contact with your ex, however this is not the way to go.… View Full Article → “Maintaining Good Communications with Your Spouse During a Divorce is Important”

Ending Your Marriage? How Alternative Dispute Resolution in Divorce Might Help

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   April 26th, 2025
Ending Your Marriage? How Alternative Dispute Resolution in Divorce Might Help

Divorcing couples are increasingly turning to Alternative Dispute Resolution in divorce to avoid the stress and cost of litigation.

Three Proven Ways to End a Marriage Without Going to Court

Most people expect a divorce to be like a courtroom drama movie with intense arguments and conflict in front of a judge. Many people are opting to remove this drama and amicably settle divorces outside of the courtroom.

There are three main types of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods to resolve disputes without the traditional litigation battles. They are mediation, collaborative divorce and the hybrid approach (a combination of both). Each ADR method has its own strengths. The right one for you depends on your situation, your goals, and your relationship with your spouse. Each method of Alternative Dispute Resolution in divorce offers unique benefits depending on your needs.

MEDIATION: What is Mediation in Alternative Dispute Resolution?

Mediation is utilizing a neutral third party (a Mediator) to help communicate, identify issues, and reach agreements.… View Full Article → “Ending Your Marriage? How Alternative Dispute Resolution in Divorce Might Help”

Did Your Ex-Spouse Take the Easter baskets? resurrection after the crucifixion of divorce…

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   April 19th, 2025
Did Your Ex-Spouse Take the Easter baskets? resurrection after the crucifixion of divorce…

10 Steps Toward Emotional Healing After Divorce

PUBLISHER’S NOTE:

If you’re struggling with emotional healing after divorce, you are not alone. Often that paralysis is largely due to the trauma resulting from a high conflict and expensive legal brawl in divorce Court. I have seen the harm that the “win at all cost” attitude causes.

The first of this year, I formed MuesLaw to try to assist folks wanting to end their marriage to first consider the use of a more holistic collaborative divorce process before jumping into divorce litigation. I have learned that using this approach can be incredibly beneficial to help individuals transition to the next chapter in their lives in a much more healthy manner.

My philosophy about utilizing a more peaceful and mindful marriage dissolution process is not a new one. Below is a blog article that I first wrote 16 years ago!

Emotional Healing After Divorce?

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Blast From The Past: In Camera Interviews of Children in Divorce Court

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   April 12th, 2025
Blast From The Past: In Camera Interviews of Children in Divorce Court

An in camera interview in child custody cases allows a judge to privately speak with a child to better understand their needs without parental pressure.

In Camera Interview during Child Custody Cases: What Judges Are Really Listening for in These Private Talks

What is an in camera interview? The phrase “in camera” is a Latin term defined in Black’s Law Dictionary as: “In chambers; in private.”  The interview does not involve a camera or a videotape at all!  If a party is asking for the Court to have an in camera interview of a minor child, the request is for the Judge or Magistrate to interview the minor child privately with neither parent or his/her attorney being present.  An Appellate Court in Michigan said it very well years ago . . .

“A child custody determination is much more difficult and subtle than an arithmetical computation of factors.  It is one of the most demanding undertakings of a trial judge, one in which he must not only listen to what is said to him and observe all that happens before him, but a task requiring him to discern and feel the climate and chemistry of the relationships between children and parents.  … View Full Article → “Blast From The Past: In Camera Interviews of Children in Divorce Court”

Did You Know That April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month?

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   April 5th, 2025
Did You Know That April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month?

What Is National Child Abuse Prevention Month?

TThe month of April is recognized as National Child Abuse Prevention Month. Every child has the right to grow up in a nurturing, safe environment where they feel safe, protected and valued. Sadly, this is not the reality for many children. In fact, the Children’s Bureau Maltreatment Report in 2023, reports that millions of estimated referrals of child abuse and or neglect were made nationally.

Child Abuse Prevention Month was established by President Ronald Reagan and his administration in 1983 in an effort to raise awareness about child abuse and neglect. Since 1983, the Children’s Bureau as well as other child welfare organizations have continued to spearhead this initiative to promote April as National Child Abuse Prevention Month. Their mission being to advocate for stronger child protection policies and to educate communities about what child abuse is and what they can do to prevent abuse and neglect.… View Full Article → “Did You Know That April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month?”

The Importance of Establishing a Budget When Your Marriage Ends!

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   March 29th, 2025
The Importance of Establishing a Budget When Your Marriage Ends!

💰 Take Control: Master Post-Divorce Budgeting for a Stress-Free Future

The end of marriage is extremely difficult and for most people it creates anxiety about their financial future. Post-divorce budgeting is essential to ensure stability and reduce stress. It is important to plan for your future and have realistic financial expectations. Creating a budget is one of the most important things to do post-separation. The word budget can be a daunting word but there are so many resources that are available to you.

How to Create Your Post-Divorce Budget

Creating a budget can seem like an impossible task but it can be easier than you think. The best way to start creating your budget is to use this formula:

Monthly Income – Monthly Expenses = Monthly Surplus

Your monthly income includes things like salary, tips, and any other earned income. It also includes alimony and child support, along with any unearned income like interest from dividends and stocks or any other unearned income like social security payments.… View Full Article → “The Importance of Establishing a Budget When Your Marriage Ends!”

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