FINANCIAL AFFIDAVIT – WHEN YOUR SPOUSE LIES

My Spouse “Lied” on His/Her Financial Affidavit

Lies and Misrepresentations on the Financial Affidavit in Ohio Divorce Actions

In Ohio, when a divorce proceeding is initiated, the Plaintiff files his or her Complaint for Divorce along with his/her Financial Affidavit and other pleadings. The Financial Affidavit, a “sworn” statement made under oath disclosing the incomes, assets, liabilities of the parties and the monthly expenses of the Affiant. The Financial Affidavit, also called the Affidavit of Income and Expenses, is a very important pleading, as it provides the filing party the opportunity to request (1) temporary custody of the child or children, (2) temporary child support, and/or (3) temporary spousal support during the pendency of the proceeding. This Financial Affidavit is also the pleading that is relied upon by the Court in determining the amount of temporary support (child and/or spousal support). Accordingly, if the Plaintiff “lies” or “misrepresents” the incomes or earnings of either party, the resultant Temporary Order of Support may be improper and unduly burdensome to the Obligor (person ordered to pay support).… View Full Article → “FINANCIAL AFFIDAVIT – WHEN YOUR SPOUSE LIES”

My Husband Committed Adultery, Humiliated Me, and Embarrassed Me in Our Community…Why Don’t I Get More Than 50% of the Assets? It’s Not Fair!

How many times have we heard those comments and criticisms from our clients and their family members?  In many of my initial interviews with potential clients and their family members, I get the distinct impression that they believe the errant Husbands should be “tarred and feathered,” put in stocks in the village square so that raw eggs and tomatoes could be thrown at them, or sentenced to hard labor in a coal mine in Siberia!  I try to gently break the news that those things are not going to happen in the State of Ohio.

Our state is a “no fault” state …which essentially means that the Court does not care why the marriage is being terminated.  Therefore, the Court does not assign blame to Husband or to Wife.  Neither party is “punished” by the Court for any transgression that might have occurred during the marriage.  “No Fault Divorce” has been defined as follows: “A marriage/dissolution system whereby a divorce or dissolution is granted without the necessity of proving one of the parties is guilty of marital misconduct.”… View Full Article → “My Husband Committed Adultery, Humiliated Me, and Embarrassed Me in Our Community…Why Don’t I Get More Than 50% of the Assets? It’s Not Fair!”

Registering an Out-of-State Decree when a Parent and Minor Children have Relocated to Ohio

In the days of my parents who were born in the 1920’s, persons typically lived in the small towns or cities in which they were born and remained there carrying on the family farms or businesses or following the trades or professions of their parents.  In today’s society, people are much more mobile.  Persons move to find employment, attend college, or due to military assignments.  Many individuals who have had their marriage terminated in another State may find themselves now living in the Miami Valley area.  Some of those persons are parents of minor children.  So, if Post-Decree problems occur, to which Court do they go for help or assistance?

I should explain that “Post-Decree” refers to situations which occur after the parties’ Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce or after the parties’ Decree of Dissolution of Marriage have been filed.  So, the parties’ marriage has ended but issues may continue regarding spousal support, child support, parenting time schedules, transportation, etc.   … View Full Article → “Registering an Out-of-State Decree when a Parent and Minor Children have Relocated to Ohio”

Sexually Transmitted Diseases and Alimony Proceedings

Question Presented: Is it likely that one spouse would be granted an award of spousal support in a divorce for having been infected with a sexually transmitted disease (STD) by the other spouse?

Most states have spousal support/alimony statutes which list factors for the Court to consider when awarding spousal support.  Many of these statutes, such as Ohio’s statute, include in the list “any other factor that the court expressly finds to be relevant and equitable” or something similar to this. Using this factor, courts do have the authority to consider the contraction of an STD between spouses when awarding spousal support.  In many cases in which one party to a marriage contracts an STD, it is the result of an extramarital affair.  The other party is then infected with the STD through continued sexual relations between the spouses.  Obviously, there may be significant proof problems associated with establishing the origin of the STD.… View Full Article → “Sexually Transmitted Diseases and Alimony Proceedings”

The Importance of a “Correctly Completed” Affidavit of Financial Disclosure

The Affidavit of Financial Disclosure (or a Financial Affidavit) is a very important document in domestic relations, especially in divorce matters.  If you are pursuing an agreed upon dissolution of marriage (instead of a divorce), the Financial Affidavits are required, but they are not nearly as important as in divorce actions.  In dissolutions, the Financial Affidavit establishes the required disclosure of all assets and liabilities which is the foundation for any dissolution. Also, in a dissolution, since the parties have everything settled between them, any issues regarding what Husband earns or what Wife earns are largely irrelevant because the parties have already determined which party will be paying child support and/or spousal support (alimony) and the amount thereof. The Court is not likely to interfere with those agreements.

In a divorce, which is an adversarial proceeding, one party may be requesting spousal support and/or child support.  In Montgomery County, Ohio, it is especially important to complete the Affidavit of Financial Disclosure because the Court relies upon that information when issuing its Temporary Order for Custody and Support.  … View Full Article → “The Importance of a “Correctly Completed” Affidavit of Financial Disclosure”

The “Un-Advisability” of an “Un-Divorce” Arrangement

Psychotherapist and Guest Contributor Donna F. Ferber sent me an email a month or so ago encouraging me to read Suzi Parker’s article about famous couples who chose, rather than going through a divorce, to simply live separate lives. Click here to read Ms. Parker’s article about a trend some people call an “un-divorce.”

We both agreed to attempt to fairly evaluate the “pros and cons” of this option: she from a psychological perspective and me from a legal perspective. Initially, Donna was much more open to the possible merits of this arrangement than I was. She made it clear that she was most interested in hopefully reaching and empowering people who are in unhappy marriages and who feel trapped by fear, ignorance, and the lack of financial and emotional resources. Donna and I continued to exchange numerous emails over the last six weeks about this “un-divorce” arrangement, discussing the relative merits of couples remaining married but living separate lives.… View Full Article → “The “Un-Advisability” of an “Un-Divorce” Arrangement”

The New Economics of Marriage: More Men Marrying Wealthier Women

In a recent analysis of census data, the Pew Research Center found that the institution of marriage has undergone significant changes in recent decades as women have outpaced men in education and earnings growth. The study examined American’s 30 to 44 years old, a stage of life when typical adults have completed their education, have gone to work and gotten married. “Men now are increasingly likely to marry wives with more education and income than they have, and the reverse is true for women,” said Paul Fucito, spokesman for the Pew Center. “In recent decades, with the rise of well-paid working wives, the economic gains of marriage have been a greater benefit for men.” Clearly, these unequal gains have been accompanied by gender role reversals in both the spousal characteristics and the economic benefits of marriage.

I personally enjoy reviewing statistics. For those that don’t, be sure at least to read my conclusion at the end of this piece, especially if you are a woman contemplating entering into a marriage.… View Full Article → “The New Economics of Marriage: More Men Marrying Wealthier Women”

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