Blast From The Past: Divorce: The Important Role Schools Can Play for Your Kids

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   July 20th, 2024
Blast From The Past: Divorce: The Important Role Schools Can Play for Your Kids

PUBLISHER’S UPDATE: Here is one of my favorites Divorce posts from back on March 16th, 2019! The advice rings as true now as it did then…We have a ton of interesting articles in our archives of the Ohio Family Law Blog. Use our Search tool and enjoy a few oldie but goodies!
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School Can Be Safe Place For Children Going Through Divorce Or Separation

When a couple divorces, the children are obviously affected by the change in living circumstances. All children react differently. Some may experience severe emotional responses. Others may be somewhat relieved as there is not that constant tension between their parents. In all cases however, there will a period of adjustment. Your child’s emotional and social well-being are at stake and how they are able to cope can have an impact on their learning.  Parents should not overlook their children’s teachers and how the school can help make the transition and adjustment easier.… View Full Article → “Blast From The Past: Divorce: The Important Role Schools Can Play for Your Kids”

Did You Know the Majority of Americans are Now Single? Consider These Statistics…

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   July 13th, 2024
Did You Know the Majority of Americans are Now Single? Consider These Statistics…

Recent statistics show that the majority of Americans are now single, which has significant implications for society and the family structure

From ‘I Do’ to ‘I Don’t’: Economic Shifts Behind The Majority of Americans Are Now Single

As many of you who follow my blog know, I am a self-proclaimed statistic geek. Or maybe my wife gets credit for dubbing me with that title. Nonetheless, I enjoyed reviewing the statistics as it relates to my divorce law practice.

For generations, most Americans have believed they will fall in love, get married, and raise children together. However, over the past 50 years, studies and statistics show us that is changing. The days of the nuclear family, a woman, man, and children, are no longer the norm. The most current Census Bureau report on marital status found that 49% of Americans are married, while 51% are single. Being single is defined as being separated, divorced, widowed, or never married.… View Full Article → “Did You Know the Majority of Americans are Now Single? Consider These Statistics…”

Blast From The Past: How to Tell Your Children About Your Filing for Divorce

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   July 6th, 2024
Blast From The Past: How to Tell Your Children About Your Filing for Divorce

PUBLISHER’S UPDATE: Here is one of my favorites posts on how to tell your children about your filing for divorce, from back on October 15th, 2022! We have a ton of interesting articles in our archives of the Ohio Family Law Blog. Use our Search tool and enjoy a few oldie but goodies!

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Filing For Divorce? Break The News To Your Children With These Recommendations

Having been a divorce lawyer for over 40 years, I am asked this question frequently. I always appreciate the question. It shows appropriate concern and insight about the importance of handling this matter correctly.

My advice is to spend time reading materials from counselors and psychologists on the subject more qualified to address it. There are a ton of resources available online or books on the topic. Planning ahead is important – don’t just drop this “bomb” in an off-hand nonthought-out manner.

Here are some suggestions the professionals often recommend:
  1. Both Parents Tell the Kids Together

    While this may not be possible in many situations, it certainly is usually the best approach if you and your spouse can present a civil “united front”.

… View Full Article → “Blast From The Past: How to Tell Your Children About Your Filing for Divorce”

4th Of July Family Memories: The Red Ones Are the Best!!!

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   June 29th, 2024
4th Of July Family Memories: The Red Ones Are the Best!!!

PUBLISHER’S NOTE: I first posted a version of this blog way back in July of 2014. I always think about this one I wrote when I am planning a blog post for the Independence Day holiday. I have reposted it several times since, and I am doing so again but with a few new updates. I hope you also have some wonderful 4th of July family memories, or perhaps you will create an incredible one this year for you and your family! Enjoy it and please remember that “The Red Ones are the BEST!”

Family Law Attorney Chip Mues Recalls A Remarkable 4th of July Family Vacation Set In Maine

It seemed appropriate that I should write something for the family law blog geared towards the “Birthday of America “. In the past, I liked to reflect upon the holidays and tried to find some correlation between the specific holiday and my family law practice.… View Full Article → “4th Of July Family Memories: The Red Ones Are the Best!!!”

Steps to Take to Financially Prepare for a Divorce

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   June 22nd, 2024
Steps to Take to Financially Prepare for a Divorce

It goes without saying, divorce is an extremely difficult and emotional journey. It can be overwhelming and it will most likely affect and change many aspects of life including finances. Financial preparation for divorce is crucial in order to move forward in your divorce. Separating finances with two spouses can be messy. In order to do so, each partner needs to prepare in order to ensure security and stability both during the divorce proceedings and after the divorce is finalized.

There are certainly things both parties can do to financially prepare for divorce. Here are some tips for those going through this sticky situation.

Gathering Financial Documents

One of the first steps to do is to gather all financial documents, including tax returns, all accounts including savings, checking and investment accounts, pay stubs, property records (home, land, vehicles) credit card statements, debts, and any retirement account statements such as 4014K plans, IRA’s, or pensions.… View Full Article → “Steps to Take to Financially Prepare for a Divorce”

On the Fence About Divorcing or Staying Married? Discernment Counseling Might be Your Answer

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   June 15th, 2024
On the Fence About Divorcing or Staying Married? Discernment Counseling Might be Your Answer

Discernment counseling for couples considering divorce provides clarity and guidance on whether to end the marriage or work on reconciliation.

Understanding Discernment Counseling for Couples Considering Divorce

When a couple is having marital problems, counseling is often one of the first steps they take. However, if you are one of those couples with a “mixed agenda”, meaning one partner is leaning towards wanting a divorce while the other is wishing to stay married, then discernment counseling might be a route to try. For those not familiar with it, discernment counseling is a type of couples therapy for those who need guidance to see whether or not to terminate the marriage.

It is designed to help a couple examine their options and help them to figure out the best path to continue, whether it be it separation, reconciliation, or a divorce. It helps a couple to develop both clarity and perspective about whether divorce is right before actually going down that road.… View Full Article → “On the Fence About Divorcing or Staying Married? Discernment Counseling Might be Your Answer”

Blast From The Past: Child Visitation Exchanges – Tips to Avoid Problems!

By Robert "Chip" Mues   |   June 8th, 2024
Blast From The Past: Child Visitation Exchanges – Tips to Avoid Problems!

PUBLISHER’S UPDATE: Here is one of my favorites posts about child visitation exchanges, from back on June 13th, 2020! The advice rings as true now as it did then. …We have a ton of interesting articles in our archives of the Ohio Family Law Blog. Use our Search tool and enjoy a few oldie but goodies!

Visitation Exchanges. Do this to Avoid Friction with your Ex!

Visitation exchanges and custody exchanges can be uncomfortable and sometimes downright combative depending upon the relationship between the parents. They can also be stressful to your child as well. The overall objective needs to be to keep things civil and reduce friction all the way around.

Here are some common-sense tips of what to do, or not do in visitation exchanges:
  1. Coordinate Drop Off/Pick Up Location: In high conflict cases, the less you have to interact with your Ex the better. One common approach is agreeing upon making the switch at school, a daycare center, babysitters or friend’s house.
… View Full Article → “Blast From The Past: Child Visitation Exchanges – Tips to Avoid Problems!”
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