The 3 C’s of Divorce: What They Are and How They Can Help You Uncouple Peacefully!

3 C’s of Divorce

How the 3 C’s of Divorce Can Help You Uncouple Peacefully

It is no secret that divorce tends to be a highly stressful process. Following the 3 C’s of Divorce can make the process less stressful, less costly, and may even speed up the process.

1. Communication: A Core Principle of the 3 C’s of Divorce

Communication skills often impact one’s ability to negotiate. In her article, Rebecca Todd shares that “understanding how we communicate and what impact that can have on how we negotiate can help us to be better negotiators with better outcomes”. Negotiation is a critical skill in any collaborative divorce settlement, since an agreement will need to be filed with the court when the divorce is finalized.

Poor communication also tends to lead to conflict and confusion. When parties are straightforward it is easier to understand each other’s goals and priorities. It is important to note that a divorce with more conflict tends to be more expensive and lengthy than a divorce where parties communicate well with one another and their attorney.… View Full Article → “The 3 C’s of Divorce: What They Are and How They Can Help You Uncouple Peacefully!”

New Years: Resolutions and Goals During and After Divorce

New Year's Resolutions During Divorce

New Year’s Resolutions During Divorce, Setting Healthy Goals After Separation

PUBLISHER’S NOTE – This blog was written by Attorney Rachel Recker who has clerked with MuesLaw for the last seven months while attending the law school at the University of Dayton. She did a great job! I appreciate these observations from working in a law firm focusing on collaborative divorce. Rachel has “flown the coop” from MuesLaw and will soon be starting her career as an attorney with the Law Office of Emily Feliz Garcia in Springdale! We will all miss you, Rachel. Please stay in touch!

Why New Year’s Resolutions During Divorce Can Be Especially Challenging

With January being the start of divorce season, New Year’s resolutions during divorce can feel especially challenging as personal goals and legal decisions begin to overlap. One may think “After this divorce, I am going to get my finances back together!” or “Once the separation is finalized, I am going to finally take time for myself!”… View Full Article → “New Years: Resolutions and Goals During and After Divorce”

How Does Discernment Counseling Differ from Marriage Counseling? On the Fence about Divorcing?

discernment counseling vs marriage counseling

Publisher’s Note I attended an excellent seminar yesterday presented by the International Academy of Collaborative Professions (IACP) of which I am a member. It focused in part on the differences between traditional marriage counseling and discernment counseling. It was very enlightening and prompted me to repost this article of mine from June 15, 2024. This article explains discernment counseling vs marriage counseling and helps couples understand which option fits their situation.

I HAVE AN ASK – IF YOU ARE AWARE OF ANY DAYTON AREA PROFESSIONALS OFFERING DISCERNMENT COUNSELING, PLEASE LET ME KNOW FOR A FOLLOW-UP POST!

What Is Discernment Counseling vs Marriage Counseling?

When a couple is having marital problems, counseling is often one of the first steps they take. However, if you are one of those couples with a “mixed agenda”, meaning one partner is leaning towards wanting a divorce while the other is wishing to stay married, then discernment counseling might be a route to try.… View Full Article → “How Does Discernment Counseling Differ from Marriage Counseling? On the Fence about Divorcing?”